Bunmi was  a very remarkable  student.Despite the years which have rolled by and though he spent only one session in ss3 in our evening school we will never forget him.He lived a short  but very meaningful life.

Today i can still recollect his young face.Ever smiling making you feel he might be up to some mischief. But that was just his nature.Perhaps that is why his colleagues ever milled around him and from the way he interacted with them one was bound to recognize immediately the traits of a born leader.

Today i still remember the way he used to buy many pieces of doughnuts from the lady in my wife’s shop in the school while it was still on 3rd Avenue Festac Town.Most of those doughnuts ended up in the stomachs of his friends (followers?).

Today i recall his intelligence and his mother’s wish that he be brushed up more in one of the sciences.We thank God we made some contribution to the decent life he lived later.Personally,i developed special interest in his academic work and behavior but did not know he took notice of it all.Enough to be citing me and my ways to some of the staff of  TFC later in life.He never told me he did but at least two employees did.And the wife whom i never met until after he died also attested to his mentioning me to her.

Today,i remember he paid me a visit after he returned from the US.That was before he got married.It was also the first time i saw he had grown into becoming a giant. A gentle giant! Though i only got to know about his wedding through the media i thought that one day we were bound to meet again.But it was not the way God wanted it.

Today i remember i paid a visit to TFC head office on Victoria Island about two and a half years ago when my daughter was going to get married.I was very sure we were going to meet again on that day.But alas,it was not to be so.Luckily i met the father that day and he gave me the phone numbers of Bunmi’s mother for later contact/connection.By the way have i mentioned she also happens to be my Ijebu sista?

Today i also recollect that i wrote a proposal to TFC WHICH WAS PERSONALLY ADDRESSED TO BUNMI BUT WAS NEVER DELIVERED…However, i told Mrs Adedayo later that we also intend to do something  in Bunmi’s memory which was never going to drain the purse of TFC and she gave her acceptance through a text from her office.We intend to follow up on this later with activities within Amuwo Odofin schools including Navy Secondary School ,Navy Town attended by Bunmi.

Today i also remember the day a TV crew contacted me that i should comment on Bunmi’s life as part of a documentary being prepared about his life.As a parent,my first feeling was to ask myself if it was right to do so by Yoruba customs and traditions.But my true feelings about Bunmi became the decider.With anguish within and a straight face without i made those comments which were broadcasted as part of the documentary during the evening of songs at the Muson Centre.Throughout the renditions of beautiful songs it was a roller coaster of emotions until i begged my wife to let us leave after the exhortation! At a point, the memories and the event became too painful to bear.And at my age everything needed to be in what my wife call “proper proportions”! However, we took along the candles that were meant to be lighted in Bunmi’s memories at the event.They have been placed somewhere in our house to help  remember Bunmi virtually each day! Thank God.

So, to my dear sista and her husband,sorry we could not wait to let you know we were there with  you physically and emotionally.Instead of saying EPELE I INTEND TO PUBLISH ALL YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT YOUR LOSS ON THESE PAGES IN THE NEAREST FUTURE.I feel this will be more satisfactory than just shaking your hands that night and going home.And by the way,Bimbo Oloyede was there too and left just before us.I know this because she was sitting just behind us.May be the event got through to her too having suffered a similar loss of a dear daughter! Just a thought only though.

So,today we say may Bunmi’s soul rest in perfect and eternal peace.And may the Lord watch over his children,wife and parents in Jesus’ name…Amen.

We intend to continue publishing articles,poems,wise sayings and other written materials on Bunmi’s beautiful life for a few days.So please  forgive us if you do not exactly see that as your cup of tea. Many thanks.




A mother to Remember…..

I owe my life to my mother
And i thank the Lord she came my way
I touch her feet and kiss her cheek
Every morning of everyday

I think of her all the time
She’s been my number 1
She is my biggest fan
The tears she shed for my sake
Her countless efforts to keep me safe
The pains for me she’s been through
And her love for me that’s always brand new
Her warmth and comfort during the night
And her support for me during my tough times
Are among the million things, she’s sacrificed
I’d forever be indebted to her grace
I’d always appreciate the smile on her face

I love her with all my heart
With such love that has never been experienced on this earth
My prayer to the Almighty is to keep her safe at all times
For she’s my heart, unique…one of a kind
Love and Blessings to All Mothers Around the World
Their Efforts will never be in vain

Just as the sun never stops to shine
They will always be remembered in our Minds….
…Slim Jay

Her bio and pics  will be added to this post later. May her soul rest in perfect peace….AMEN






Do you think the government should consider negotiating with Boko Haram?

My own opinion is this: When you talk of Boko Haram, who are they? How can you say you are going to negotiate with a nebulous group? They have not declared their identity. Are you going to be talking to the air? The people you want to negotiate with, who are they? Have they even given you their own terms? You can’t know or see them because they are nebulous people.

And if you’re bold enough they will come and kill you. And you yourself, you need to know what you are negotiating for? Did you offend them? You are just sitting down and somebody tells you to quit. Look at all the innocent people they have killed, and taken innocent people (Chibok girls) hostage, and there is supposed to be a governor in that place. What was the governor doing, if he has no hand in it? If I were the Head of State, he would be the first person I would arrest.

Where do they (Boko Haram) get their arms from? How did they enter? There are many questions to be answered. And then you are now talking of negotiation. For what? What if they say for negotiation the Head of State should quit? Will he be ready to quit? Or what if they say government should give them so and so people in exchange for the Chibok girls, what kind of negotiation is that? To me, I don’t buy it at all.

Do you think the current leadership of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) is actually acting like an arm of the federal government or an appendage of the PDP as some critics say?

My brother, I must tell you this; CAN leadership today is zero. CAN has no leader. Thank God you are talking to one of the founders of CAN, and I was there as their leader for eight years. Then, the whole country knew that CAN had a leader, not by my own might, but by God. Because what we were doing then, we had only one voice. But the problem we have now is that people are struggling for power in unrighteous way.

And because he is struggling for power, he can do little or nothing. Power doesn’t come like that. Look at David in the Scriptures. Look at Solomon. Even look at Herbert Macaulay and other early nationalists. You don’t force yourself to power. This is what is happening. Somebody is telling you that if you don’t allow him to rule, you will not rule well. So the person struggling for power is not going to do better. Now, election is coming in 2015 and some people are already saying they must be there. They will not allow the electorate to decide.

They are ready with their moneybags. Where did they get the money from? Where did they get the $9.3m that has been seized by South Africa from? They said it was to buy arms. We have to be very careful in this nation. What is the man (Oritsejafor) looking for? If you call yourself a man of God, then you should rely on God. Why should he be jumping up and down? But because he was not elected, not chosen by God, that is what is happening. Today, he wants to build a university, tomorrow he wants to be something else, next tomorrow he wants to be like other people.

Then why is he there as CAN president? In our day and time, election was done by the groups and we know how we go about it. I think I ruled for two terms, eight years. If there was any trouble anywhere in the country, they would come to the centre. And it wouldn’t take time. We would just come to the centre and solve it and I will speak out and the whole nation would listen. Sometimes, you would hear people say, “Has Okogie spoken?” “What did Okogie say?” There was unity, because that’s what we are looking for.

And we didn’t buy the position. But this time around, because they are rushing to be in power, nobody obeys them. And look at how they are making mockery of themselves and making mockery of “religion”. Is that religion? Today, they are with the federal government. We saw the writing on the wall when we left. The very first person that took over started romancing with Obasanjo. Then one or two CAN presidents tried their best before it got to this present CAN president, Oritsejafor. This is not right. Look at how Oritsejafor has fallen, from grace to grass.

And he is not going down alone, he is also staining the name of the Head of State. Of course, why not? If you eat with those with dirty hands, then you must be dirty. And this is the man that they are saying should come and rule the nation for a second term. They think people are stupid. They have not even answered about this $9.3m, and when the matter got to the House of Reps, they said they should throw it out. Can you imagine? Are they not the ones making laws on money laundering? And this is a case of real money laundering. These are lawmakers.

And they say throw it out, we will not entertain any discussion on this $9.3m matter. Can you imagine! You can imagine that these are the kind of people we have in the National Assembly. And then of course, the relationship between Nigeria and South Africa is strained. Look at the T.B. Joshua building collapse affair, and they think all South Africans are stupid. Just watch and see what comes out of these two affairs. These are bad signs. Tomorrow now, they will say Nigeria is the giant of Africa and the economy of Nigeria is booming, with mouth. The Head of State is a PDP man and he (Oritsejafor) is linked with this rubbish. So what other proof do you want that CAN has now become an appendage of the PDP?

So do you feel now that President Jonathan and Oritsejafor have a case of money laundering to answer?

Of course, they have. In fact, if I have a lawyer, I would sue them. And I am telling you that I will win. If you can tell me that if I carry huge sums of money without declaring it, that you will arrest me for money laundering, then what is this one. They were carrying all that money and it was not declared. It is a clear case of money laundering. Yet, they are the ones making laws against money laundering.

The report that the aircraft which flew some Nigerians and an Israeli to South Africa allegedly to purchase arms belongs to Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor has once again revived the debate about the propriety of ministers of God owning private jets. What is your view about this episode?

As far as I am concerned, why are they men of God? I asked one so-called religious leader, and you know what he told me? He said, “My God is a rich God. So if yours is a poor God, that’s your business.” Imagine! So you can even see that this one can’t be called a man of God. And these are the people that tell you they can work miracles, that they have a direct telephone line to God.

They say they can do this, they can do that, and God is watching all of us. If it were to be in the Old Testament, they would all have been struck down by God. But God is a patient God. We have to be praying for this kind of people, for them to have a change of heart. What are they looking for with jet? Another one said, “Jesus said go into the whole world and evangelise, so how can I go into the whole world, with what? I need a plane to be able to go to the whole world.”

Even the devil can quote scripture. But did Jesus Christ say you should go and steal to go and buy plane? But now they are claiming that they were given the jets as gifts. But why can’t they spend that money on the poor? There are many Nigerians who are begging that they have nothing to eat, and yet you say you’re preaching. Preaching for what? Are there no pastors where they are going? May God not punish us according to our sins.

Do you see indications that there is now a sufficient will to tackle corruption, or that corruption is no longer as pervasive as it was?

Corruption is in every nation but Nigeria’s own is number one. I am telling you. And if we are not careful, this nation will go down the drain. Now, people can’t help you to bring something from that corner without asking for remuneration. Look at so many children and youths who have no school to go to, or no money to pay school fees, and there are rich men who parade themselves up and down the place as rich people. For what? They seem to have forgotten that this life is not the end. Nobody chose his parents, and nobody came into the world with a gold or silver spoon.

So even if you have a gold or silver spoon, you are going to go empty handed. A wise man lives life in a simple way. That is how I am. Even Fela told them the truth, even though they said he was mad and called him all sorts of names. Naked you came into this world, and naked you will go back. These are people that are supposed to rule and govern this nation. What is happening? Money is exchanging hands.

Now, they are asking the nation and the national assembly to approve so and so huge sum of money for them to borrow. They think people are stupid. Whatever you do as the Head of State without the permission of the people, you will pay for it. Those who were ministers and Heads of State before, some of them are in Abuja today begging for job, because if you get ill-gotten wealth, you will spend it anyhow. It is an ill wind that blows no one any good.

With the next election just a few months away, what would you say of the president’s ambition to seek re-election?

You can deduce that from what I have said before. You can even see from all that is going on, that some people have been saying that he even signed for one term. You see, if I were in his shoes, I would hide my head. I am not a prophet, just like I told him that day, but that is what my mind is telling me. And nobody knows what is going to happen. Even, nobody knows who is going to be alive to see 2015. So, one has to be very careful.

Talking about election, what kind of election are we even going to have in Nigeria? Is it going to be free and fair and just? Tell me what election we have had in Nigeria that is free and fair? Is it not mouth that they use in saying it is free and fair?